The following article builds upon the three-step model laid out in Never Stop Growing and faggotry 101: a submissive primer. Check out those original articles for a full understanding of what is being discussed here.

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I realize how odd it might seem for an Alpha to be writing about being a faggot, but I write based on my experience with the hundreds of fags who have been privileged to kneel before me. As a developer-style Alpha, it’s in my DNA to observe, to document, and to share what I have learned so that others may grow and avoid some of the common pitfalls I’ve seen omegas make.

In today’s lesson, we explore the work omegas in the hierarchy should learn and apply when it comes to approaching an Alpha.

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Before you approach.

Nature becomes thought. Thought becomes action. Action becomes fulfillment.

Once you have discovered your role and accepted your place in the hierarchy, you are ready to explore. This sounds a lot easier to say than to do for many submissives/faggots, especially if they discover hierarchy through the manufactured lens of porn.

Submissives/faggots who are older, out of shape, or in any way “sub par” to the beauty standards they see on Twitter of young, fit, and “perfect” subs being claimed by Alphas, might wrestle with feelings of inadequacy or imposter syndrome.

The “Myth of Beauty” states that only those who check all of the perfect boxes are entitled to finding fulfillment in service to Alphas. How can a submissive/faggot even begin to compete when there are dozens of subs/fags for every Alpha out there unless they are “perfect”? We Alphas have high standards, not only for ourselves, but for the things that we surround ourselves with in life: jobs, toys, and those we fuck. Why wouldn’t we want only the “perfect submissive/faggot”?

Because that myth is a lie.

The truth of beauty is this: being “ugly” does not mean you are useless, it does not mean you are worthless, it does not mean you are unable to serve. You must first know what your limitations are so you can focus on minimizing them or developing your strengths.

If you are older and you feel badly about it, I have a secret: you can’t do anything about that. Dwelling on something that is beyond any of our control is pointless. This is one of those “limitations” that you cannot do anything about, so instead, take that energy you are spending on the negative and apply it towards something with a positive result.

If you’re an obese submissive/faggot, you need to consider losing weight, and not for the reason you may be thinking. This is not about becoming skinny and trying to conform to an unrealistic standard. This is about becoming healthy. Morbid obesity takes a toll on the body, especially the joints, and leads to health problems, especially the longer the weight is kept on. A submissive is unable to serve if they do not first keep themselves in a physical condition where they can serve. Most of us have put on the “COVID-19…pounds” over the past few years. Do not let this bring you down. The mental stressors have taken a toll on many of our physical states. But as we come out of this pandemic (he writes optimistically), let’s take this as an opportunity to make resolutions that will improve our physical selves. Do it for yourself so that you can serve better. Evolution is sexy.

If you feel that you do not have the chiseled features of a model, and this is holding you back, here’s my second secret: the majority of us aren’t (and never will be) models. We are real humans with weird noses and acne scars and cellulite and “flaws”. For us Alphas, I guarantee we would rather get amazing head from a “3” than a toothy blowjob from a “10”. Hierarchy is about service, and at the end of the day, the quality of the job performed is more important. If this wasn’t true, gloryholes wouldn’t exist.

Yes, it is true that we Alphas have plenty of other options, but when a submissive/faggot acts appreciative of the gift they have been blessed with when our load is given to them, we take note of that level of respect and appreciation. The secret (number 3) to being summoned for repeat service is being memorable for the right reasons.

To any of my Alpha brothers who might be reading this: I encourage you to give the “norms” a chance; you might be surprised how well they devour your cock and cum and show the appreciation we deserve. They know we have options, but it’s the quality of service that matters most.

Remember: not fitting the traditional mold does not mean you are useless, subs/fags. You have value and worth, even if you don’t see it.

Know what you are offering before you approach

Once you have become more comfortable with presenting yourself to serve, you need to know what form of service you are comfortable in offering (sexual, non-sexual, either/both). We are familiar with the most common forms of physical service: body worship, foot worship, muscle worship, cock worship, sexual services, etc. Know what your limits are (yellow line / soft limits and red-line / hard limits) and keep to them. Do NOT compromise yourself just so you can serve. While we Alphas enjoy molding submissives/faggots, no true Alpha ever wants a submissive/faggot to do something that breaks their solid limits. It leads to bad service and is unhealthy for the submissive/faggot.

5 Non-Sexual Ways a faggot Can Serve Alphas

Hierarchy is more than just sexual submission. An omega can make itself useful to an Alpha beyond just sexual use. It’s not that we Alphas cannot do these things, but why should we when we have more important things to do, and we have omegas to do these trivial tasks for us?

1. Devotional Service
   Time is one resource you can never get back. When an omega gives an Alpha time, it is priceless, if it is genuine. Kind words, attention, a ritual greeting/check-in, compliments, writing lines of devotion: all of these things show devotion by a submissive/faggot to their Alpha.
2. Laundry Service
   Offer to do your Alpha’s laundry for him. Yeah, we know you’re probably going to sniff his underwear and lick at his sweat and precum stains, but we don’t care. Just return everything cleaned, ironed, folded, and with nothing missing permanently.
3. Domestic Service
   An Alpha should always return to a clean home, so offer to clean your Alpha’s living spaces. This includes dusting, mopping, and tidying any room in his home where he allows you to. Offer to do domestic chores around his home. This goes beyond just cleaning. It means everything from running errands for him, to picking up his dog’s shit in the backyard, to taking his car to the gas station to fill it up, etc.
4. Food Service
   Offer to do food prep for your Alpha. Get to know your Alpha’s dietary needs and favorite foods. This also means that you can tailor his food to include more pineapple and less asparagus which we know you faggots will appreciate too.
5. Skilled Service
   Are you good with money? Help him with his taxes or invest wisely. Are you an artist? Write him a song or draw a portrait of him. Take your skills and apply it as a gift to him. Remember: service that originates from a place of authenticity shows dedication.

How to Spot an Alpha in Public

Remember that it’s all about location, location, location. Here are some common place you’ll spot Alphas:
At The Gym: Approaching an Alpha at the gym is fine, but if he’s mid set or has his headphones on, do not approach him. Wait until he has finished his set and removed his headphones before approaching. Things you can do to present yourself include: offering to fill up his water bottle, offering to wipe down his equipment when he is done, offering to get him a clean workout towel, offer to re-rack his weights, offering to buy him a shake or protein bar for when he is done. The act of buying him these things is not to be done to try to “buy his attention”, but must be done as an act of showing your support for the work he is putting in there.
At Work: When the Alpha has space and is not obviously occupied with work, you may approach him. Ask him about his favorite sports team, or show he’s been binging. Listen to him, and give him the space to talk about himself. You could also pay attention to what he eats, drinks, and snacks on throughout the day. For example, bring him his favorite snacks and say that he hopes he enjoys them as much as you enjoyed getting them for him. Don’t be creepy and don’t do anything that would violate your company’s sexual harassment policy. You’re trying to serve, not get fired.
In A Bar/Club: Never buy an Alpha a drink and bring it to him. Instead, when he’s ordering his drink, you can offer to pay for it. This simple gesture will be acknowledged positively by any Alpha with a modicum of manners. If he approaches you or engages in further conversation, follow his lead. If he just thanks you with a polite smile or wink, but turns away, do not view this as rejection. You gave an act of service and acknowledgement of both of your standings in the hierarchy. An Alpha is not required to pay attention to an omega because the omega did this, just as an omega is not required to indulge every random Alpha of every whim they might express. These expectations veer into fin-dom and transactional territories, which is NOT what we are talking about here. No one owes anyone anything except for respect.

How to Talk to an Alpha

What do you do when you see an Alpha you’d love to serve? First, remember the ABCs:

1. Always show submission.
2. Be respectful.
3. Choose the appropriate moment

Approaching an Alpha while you are in “heat” or at the wrong time violates the primary foundation of hierarchy: respect. Respect an Alpha’s space first and foremost. Keep these things in mind as we look at the process a submissive/faggot should present themselves when approaching an Alpha are.

1. Approach Appropriately: Make sure the time, place, and environment are right. Do not bother him if he is around others unless the location is sexually charged (gay bar, bathhouse, gloryhole), and even then, timing is everything.
2. Address Him Properly: Do not ask for a first name or personal details. If/When he is ready to give those details, he will. Until then, when an omega speaks to an Alpha, they should refer to the Alpha as “Sir”, “Master”, or something as equally appropriate. These terms will signal your intent to serve to him.
3. Never Demand: An omega should never make a statement that resembles a demand or order to an Alpha. The decision is always for the Alpha to make. For example, there is a difference between:
   “I want to suck your dick” vs. “May I suck your dick, Sir?” or even “I would love to offer you release, Sir.”
   The first one is wrong because no Alpha wants to hear right what a submissive/faggot wants as their opening line.
   The second and third options are correct because the submissive/faggot is offering their service and leaving the next step (the decision making) to the Alpha.
   The submissive/faggot may also make a more submissive statement such as, “My holes are yours to use, Sir,” again leaving it up to the Alpha to decide how to proceed.
   The Alpha commands, the omega obeys.
4. Always Be Thankful: As we stated at the start, an Alpha has the option of using any number of submissives/faggots offering themselves to Him. If He choses you, be grateful. The appropriate response to any action by an Alpha (within your pre-stated limits) is always “Yes, Sir. Thank you.”
5. Never Challenge: In the animal kingdom, locking eyes is a direct challenge. When an omega approaches an Alpha, they should do so head bowed, eyes to the ground, and with a clear voice (no whispered mumbles) that directly expresses their intention. This leaves the decision making for how to proceed in the Alpha’s hands. As a submissive/faggot, you are not allowed to communicate to an Alpha the way you might communicate with your peers because we are above you in the hierarchy. Remember this: kindness does not mean weakness, and certainly not equality.

With these tips in mind, you should now be able to find opportunities to present yourself to an Alpha.

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Remember, stay true to yourself, work on developing these principles and yourself, and you will find opportunities to serve. You will not be every Alpha’s choice for service, but this is not because you are unworthy of serving. You may be an omega in the hierarchy, but you are still a part of the hierarchy with worth and value.

*Bonus Pro Tip: I sometimes advise submissives/faggots to make a set of business cards with their phone number and specific set of services they provide on it. Make sure your card clearly states that this is not offered in exchange for money. You can hand it to the Alpha and walk away, leaving them to decide what they want to do. We will be having a contest soon on our Discord for the best “business card” contest, so come submit yours there.