Setting Up

The sub/receiver pairs their device to the app. Most devices are compatible with iOS (Apple) and Android (everything else) devices. The receiver can then give out their user name to the Dom/controller. Each device is slightly different, so make sure you follow the instructions for your device.

For the Dom/controller, setup is much easier. All you have to do is download the app and send a connection/friend request once you have the receiver’s name. Once you are connected – game on.

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Teledildonics is not only the ultimate form of safe sex, but also makes masturbation and stimulation a more interactive activity. That being said, there is a skill to it. It’s not just about cranking the speed and buzzing someone’s hole until the batteries die. Just like any other sexual interaction, there is an art to it. Remember the three Cs: consent, communication, care.

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Establishing the Tone

Control begins before your first vibration. Establish the tone, the vibe, and the rules.
Is this going to be a reward for your sub? Is this an edging session? Is the receiver allowed to touch themselves? Can they cum? Are poppers involved, and if so, how intense will that be implemented?

Like in any other session, a good Dom will be able to help the sub/receiver get into subspace beforehand, or at the very least, get them to a place where they are receptive to going where you lead.

The Alpha/Dom is like the conductor of the orchestra; the receiver one of the many sections they are controlling. As the Alpha/Dom, remember to keep the sub/receiver engaged in a way that reenforces the tone you are going for.

Given the nature of this type of session, two-way communication is very important. As the controller, make sure you are giving the receiver the space to respond to your commands, to moan as they feel you control their hole, or to make requests and beg for you to continue with your session.

And subs/receivers, keep your responses as long or as brief as your Dom has established.

If the session is being handled via cam, this can improve communication and lessen the necessity for continuous dialog, but only if the parties on video consent to this and any parameters which pertain to it.

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