About Us

In 2021, a group of Alphas and submissives were looking for an alternative from the pervasive narrative dominating some major circles which said that any man claiming to be at the top of the hierarchy must be obeyed in all ways (sexually, financially, etc.), and those at the bottom must submit without question, hesitation, or agency. This direction did not align with their values and principles, and so a central question was asked: What if there was a hierarchical community which helped develop, train, and foster individuals rather than cater to their destructive impulses? Elysium Lifestyle is the answer.

Elysium Lifestyle is a community for those into consensual power exchange, centered around the notion of hierarchy. Through this blog, our social media, the Discord server, and our regular podcasts, we are able to educate people on how to accept their roles in the hierarchy without shame, fear, or apology.

Our Discord is open to all and we try to promote as much community growth and cohesiveness as possible.

Welcome to Elysium Lifestyle!

What People Say

The way to get started is to quit talking and begin doing.

Walt Disney

It is our choices, Harry, that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.

J. K. Rowling

Don’t cry because it’s over, smile because it happened.

Dr. Seuss

Let’s build something together.