For many straight men discovering the spectrum of services accessible to them as an Alpha in the hierarchy, the temptation of sexual service will eventually cross their mind. This simple thought of sexual service from another male can also be confusing, as their self-identified archetype is foundationally challenged.

On the one hand, we know that most submissive men will suck dick better than any woman can, as they know what feels good and possess a lust unique to their “species”. There is also the power involved that boosts the Alpha’s ego, knowing you have made another man submit to the point where he will do something so submissive as to take your cock and cum down their throat.

Everything in the world is about sex, except sex. Sex is about power.

Oscar Wilde

On the other hand, there is often the fear that allowing another man to touch and hungrily swallow your manhood will in some way impact their own sexual identity.

I ask:
        Does using a wrench make you a mechanic?
        Does using a hammer make you a carpenter?
        Does using an oven make you a baker?
        Does using a computer make you an IT specialist?
        Does driving a car make you a race car driver?
        Does wearing running shoes make you a marathon runner?

Just because you use a “tool”, doesn’t mean you’re anything more than what you were before using that tool. Submissives are tools for sexual release, domestic service, entertainment, etc. Anything consensual – sexual or non-sexual – is a tribute to us; a celebration of our place as Alphas in the hierarchy. You’re not dating them or developing a romantic relationship with them. Not unless you want that to be the case.

If you are a gay Alpha and you use fags, you were gay before using them and you’ll be gay after using them. No shame.
If you are a straight Alpha and you use a fag, you’re still going to be the same after as you were before. No shame.
We are men; we have needs. If the solution to that need can be found in a warm fag hole, then so be it.

Do not be concerned with labels or definitions that others may put upon you. They hold us back by telling us what we can/can’t do, what we should/shouldn’t be. Only you can define yourself.

– Alpha Lyon

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